Help me out here guys, if you can. The world needs a decent rationally-based Agony Aunt anyway. My paternal grandfather died long before I was born . I know almost nothing about him except that he I was ambidextrous and his children adored him and everybody in town liked him, that is only anecdotal evidence but I have heard a lot of it. He was a WW1 vet and he died at age 47, rumour says while he was cheating on his second wife , and he left seven children the youngest being the child of his second wife, my uncle. His second wife, my Grammie, inherited all his effects of course and among them she willed his WWI ID bracelet, she left them all to my father, her stepson. I now own this bracelet, which I cherish. I want to leave it to my son, who moreover has an interest in military history. I have already given him the WWII medals of his grandfather. I gave my uncle the military portrait of his father that dad had inherited, and he seemed so happy that I did that. I know that he was the youngest child of a father he never knew, and he is my uncle and I would not want to hurt him. Don't know what to do,