If anybody thinks I am too hard on Carol, my intention is not malicious. I like her. (Seriously. She is good people.) I merely think she is unaware of something right now. Sometimes things only become clear by analogy. Let's suppose I go to a meeting of predominantly black people being hosted by Don Lemon. There are a few whites. But most are there to hear Lemon because they like him. And let's suppose I start saying to all the people there that the problem with Don Lemon is he is